- People ask where my discipline comes from and let's get real, disciplines need to be forged (continually)
- The changes that I've been working on came from the void
- They came from the crushing silence of being separated from my child; a suffering I wouldn't wish on anyone
- In that darkness, I made a vow: If I get out, I will ensure no one else walks this path alone
- Everything happening to oneself is one's own responsibility
- And isn't the word responsibility a combination of two words. response (vs react) and ability?
- I think this explains my ethos. I genuinely try to assist individuals from all backgrounds. And don't let the negative experience deter me
- I strive forward and vow to 'only attract the universally good.'
- Now, most days, I wake up and ask myself, "How can I provide value?" Value isn't just a metric to me; it’s a lifeline
- I will wake up and I will either be creating new products and services here on this website. Or I will be updating one of my repositories on Github. link
- I used to wake up and during the shower, there would be thoughts in my mind that would go by rather fast. As I thought about this dynamic in the following years, I realized that the nature and grouping of these thoughts seemed to be rooted in larger categories like identity, belonging, connection and sense of worth. The problem is and this sounds like a bad excuse, if your habits are compromised or there's even one compromised node in your environment (which could be an electronic device or quite tragically an individual), that reality and if you are not careful, could tilt your destiny away from what it should be. Away from your hopes and dreams.
- So over the years, I've been doing a kind of decluttering that is consistent. And if I should say so myself, that is worth a discussion on it's own. I feel lighter inside, calmer, less reactive. my intention is to, and within reason, try and find the good in every situation.
- shifting gears. here, I am extending this hand to you.
- You may be stuck. There may be no easy way out or shortcut home
- There may be a shelter, but not a real home where you are loved and respected for who you truly are
- I am not a savior, and I cannot carry you and will not let you put your monkeys on my back — you have to do the walking. I know where some of the cliffs are because I fell off them
- Also, delegation is one thing, but in order to delegate effectively you need to walk the walk.
- So if your sole strategy is to put your monkeys on someone else's back, then you are giving your autonomy and your power away
- So when we say that your mindset is your greatest asset and it truly is. But this requires you to do, that which probably between 1 to 10 percent of the individuals on this planet do. They discipline their mind. And an adequate portion of that means to say no to the news, social media, gossip of the day, distraction of the week/era, negative mental chatter etc.
If you are ready to climb, then take my hand.
Become a partner. Help develop the structure. Roll up your sleeves and do the work
Otherwise, ten more years could pass by and one may find themselves saying. Could have, should have, would have. If only. What Brian Tracy calls, excusitis.
Please message me and let me know how I can provide value to you. We will then join forces and then lift someone else up.
For things to change, we have to change. Let's go!
Take my hand.
Take my hand.
Take my hand.
Credits:
- Image generated by Antigravity by Google
- Initial framework of the blogpost generated by Antigravity by Google
- Prompt for both provided by myself (Coach Adeel Khan)
- Note: I edited the blogpost quite heavily. Overall, positive applications of the Second Machine Age. The future is now.